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You've probably heard the
saying “The Family That Plays Together –
Stays Together”. While that's certainly
true, there's another important activity
that the whole family should be doing
together – eating dinner. With weird work
schedules and after-school activities,
family schedules are becoming crazy. When it
comes time to eat dinner, everyone just
grabs something wherever and whenever they
get a chance. Unfortunately, this means that
you and your family are missing out on some
important bonding and more.
Here are a few interesting
facts in regards to family dinners.
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“The average parent
spends 38.5 minutes per week in
meaningful conversation with their
children… “(A.C. Nielsen Co.) By simply
eating dinner together each night and
making an effort to talk to your kids,
you can easily more than quadruple that
time. You get to know your child better
and isn't that the whole point of having
a family?
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“Family dinners are
more important than play, story time and
other family events in the development
of vocabulary of younger children.”
(Harvard Research, 1996) The dinner
table has always been the social center
of families, so it is no wonder that
that's where our kids learn to talk. It
gives them “real live” demonstrations
and practice not only in speech but also
social interactions.
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“Frequent family meals
are associated with a lower risk of
smoking, drinking and using marijuana;
with a lower incidence of depressive
symptoms and suicidal thoughts; and with
better grades in 11 to 18 year olds”.
(Archives of Pediatrics and Adolescent
Medicine, 2004.) By spending more
quality time with your kids over dinner,
you will quickly be alerted to any
changes in your child, but you also
develop a better relationship with your
kids. Wouldn't you want your child to
come to you with his problems instead of
turning to drinking, drugs, or
considering taking his life?
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“The more often teens
have dinner with their parents, the less
time they spend with boyfriends or
girlfriends, and the less likely they
are to have sexually active friends”.
(National Center on Addiction and
Substance Abuse at Columbia University –
2004) Not only do your teens have less
time to hang out with boyfriends and
girlfriends, having a good relationship
with you makes them less likely to
search for closeness by becoming
sexually active.
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“Adolescent girls who
have frequent family meals, and a
positive atmosphere during those meals,
are less likely to have eating
disorders”. (University of Minnesota,
2004) It is up to you to help your
children develop a good relationship
with food. Not only can you
significantly lessen the chances that
your daughter will develop a eating
disorder, this is also your chance to
teach everyone in the family good and
healthy eating habits that will last a
lifetime.
Isn't that reason enough
for you to bring the family dinner back?
Sure, it can get a little tricky getting
everyone together with our crazy schedules
and having a hot meal cooked at the same
time. But it is well worth the effort and
once you get in the habit of eating dinner
together as a family, it gets easier and no
none would want to miss it.
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Now take it a
step further and
start cooking with your children. Of
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